Mark 9:33-34
They came to Capernaum and, once inside the house, he began to ask them, "What were you arguing about on the way?"But they remained silent. They had been discussing among themselves on the way who was the greatest.
Allow me to describe the crime scene: A stool pushed up against the cabinet, a box of cookies on the floor, a shattered vase and two children with crumbs on the corners of their mouths. It doesn't take Sherlock to figure this one out. But still, in this scenario, I'd ask the usual questions: Who did it? What happened? Is everyone okay? Why were you reaching so high? If you're a parent, you've been in this situation and you've probably received one of two responses- either fighting and finger pointing or complete silence accompanied by a look of shame.
In today's gospel story from Mark, Jesus's apostles were arguing about who was the greatest among them. When Jesus questioned them about it, they didn't speak up. They were like guilty children, ashamed of their arrogance and self-centeredness.
It's funny how guilt can bring about silence. Even in a dog who has eaten a shoe, there is some connection between our hearts being remorseful and our mouths being shut. And I think that's a good thing. How often have we missed recognition of fault and reconciliation with God and others because we can't stop talking?
Next time you have that twinge of guilt or shame, give silence a try. The quiet might reveal to you why you've done the wrong in the first place and what needs to be said or done to make it right.
